Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Oh, Mylanta!!

Ok, I am typing this with a complete smile, and grin on my face, maybe because it's probably not completely true.

Sometimes I forget why I am single, but the female friends in my life always rush in to remind me, the benefits of doing what I want, when I want, for how long I want....being single has HUGE benefits.

What do you want me to post?
  1. What schwag I got for Christmas?
  2. How I am glad the holidays are just about officially over?
  3. The good news here at work?
  4. The new recipe I got from Alex, and the tweaks I made to it? (Buffalo Chicken Cheese Dip)
  5. The surprise party 'we' threw for my brother-in-law last weekend?
  6. How the Tar Heels are undefeated and ku is unranked this season (muwhahahaha)
  7. What type of paper airplane was featured today, on my new 'paper airplane a day desk calendar?
  8. How awesome Hershey Kisses Cherry Cordial chocolates are?
  9. A possible trip to Scottsdale this month to play golf with my cousins/Uncle?
  10. How a stupid flash game on facebook now takes up an hour of my day, everyday?
  11. Maybe how awesome Jerry looks in parachute pants?
  12. Why Kel-Koo is one of the coolest chicks I know?
  13. Where to buy the 2009 wall calendar featuring pictures from Sicily (by me) ?
  14. The story of the doggy stairs it took a month for me to get Barkley to voluntarily use to get on the bed?
  15. Why not wearing pants is 1,000 times better than wearing pants?
  16. How I like to mix some hot chocolate powder in with my coffee?
  17. Try and explain why if I hear "Don't Stop Believin" by Journey, I have to stand and scream the lyrics as loud as I can, and fight back the tears?
  18. Why Red Pepper Flakes should standard condiments be on every table, right next to the salt and pepper?
  19. Even more Movie Trailers (some great looking films coming soon)
  20. Ok, last one.....Finish the write up from my Sicily trip??

Voting booths are now open.....

Monday, December 22, 2008

Soon!

I know, I know!!

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Not looking good...

Not looking good for a full post today, sorry.

I am stuck in a 3 hour meeting, and it was supposed to be about a new assignment I would be taking over from a different group. It's been 2 hours and we haven't even discussed that yet.

When it's over, I will be heading to the other side of campus for lunch, with Jerry and maybe Kel-Koo. Then I am sitting down with Jerry at his desk to show him how I edited some registry and graphics on the cell phone we both have, and I am still tweaking. When that is done, I'll try and get some of my own work done.

After work, the plan right now is to meet my Mom at the gym, so I can start getting a workout schedule going. I need to get JayJay's pills refilled (my Mom might pick those up for me, I hope).

When I get home, I will try, but I have a feeling I will be opening Photoshop and playing round with more phone stuff.

To answer Stacey's new comment question....
My facebook profile picture right now is actually my son.
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Just kidding, I wanted to see if I could hear Kel's jaw drop when she read that. It actually is a picture of me as a little kid. I don't remember how old I was, just that we lived in the house I remember in Shawnee.

ciao!

Monday, December 1, 2008

Short post

Real quick, a short break from the Sicily wrap-up.

To answer Stacey's question...

Ciro was our tour guide the first two trips (I think even the one I didn't go on). We became friends on both my trips, and last time there he made the offer to let me stay as long as I wanted with him. It started as a joke to find me a wife in Sicily. As time went by, we talked more and more about it, so I saved my money for a year and made the trip.

On the trip last year, Ciro had to return to Palermo because he was sick, and his friend Gino took over for the last two days. On the morning of the day we flew back to the US, we had to wake up around 3am in Taormina, to take the bus to airport. Ciro called the hotel lobby to talk to me and my father separately. He apologized for having to go back to Palermo, but wanted to tell me something else. The night before, they had dinner with their friends, and his best friend 's (Rosario) daughter wanted to meet me after they were talking about me. So I gave my email address to Gino and Ciro, and about a week after I got home I got an email from Francesca. We sent emails back and forth all the way up to my trip.

I completely forgot to wish everyone a good turkey day last week. I obviously didn't write anything out while I was off. I was a little busy. Thursday I went to my friend Alex and his main squeeze's house for a little feast. My parents go to my Aunt's (Dad side) that day, and I stopped going, because I really don't have a single thing in common with any of them. I don't want to sound bad, but they are a little too religious for my taste. Anyway, my immediate family always do an informal meal at my parents on Friday. We don't even do the typical Thanksgiving foods. I always invite my good buddy Frank, whose parents are in Oklahoma over. This year, since Alex didn't make the drive home, I invited him and Ann over as well. I made my Venetian Panini's, and that new dish that everyone seems to like. It's a Chipolte Bacon Wrapped Shrimp dish, in a Jack Daniels glaze. I saw the recipe on Rachel Ray, and it's fun to make, because you ignite the Jack Daniels in the pan, so its kind of flashy.

We all met, had some food, then spent the rest of the time playing Wii, Ping Pong, and even some Pool. My parents have a great space for entertaining. Once their new house is done, I might try and do something more regular. Yes ladies, a chick flick night even. My Mom has said numerous times I can use their house for a party.

Ok, I have a full day, hopefully we can continue with Day 9 tomorrow, sorry Jerry, I know you are waiting for the next episode, but after the long weekend, I have a few things here at work to take care of.

ciao!

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Now playing: Bob Marley & The Wailers - No Woman, No Cry
via FoxyTunes

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Day 8 (Nov 1st) All Saints Day

Ughhhh, I feel like I was hit by the train I'm riding on right now. Ciro woke me up at 7am. I almost got in the shower fully clothed, and in a zombie-like manner dragged my suitcase down the elevator outside to the street while Ciro got the scooter. Yes, I said scooter. We jammed my bag where he puts his feet, and I climbed aboard. It was about a 15 min ride to the station. I got in line for my tickets, and Ciro walked me to the train. It amazed me there was no sort of security anywhere. I mean no checkpoints to walk through, or guards between the ticket counter and the train tracks. I learned that 'Bin' translates to track, so I needed Bin # 2 for my train. We said goodbye, and I climbed aboard. I tried to stay awake, because I wasn't sure how many stops I'd have before Cefalu, and I didn't want to wake up after we passed it.

About an hour later, as we slowed down for another stop, I saw the Cefalu sign at the station so I exited. We were at the edge of town I guessed, and I followed the crowd towards town. There were a couple people with bundles of umbrella's wrapped in plastic, so I guessed they were heading into town to sell them. I stopped at a bar to get a coke and asked if they spoke English. They didn't, but I had the address written by Ciro, so I said Piazza Garibaldi, (where the hotel was) and they pointed down the road. I drank my coke, and continued down the road. I kept an eye open, for when I had to come back in two days.

I got the the main plaza, and asked another person who was sitting at a table drinking an espresso. He didn't speak any English either, but this time I showed him the paper with the address. He pointed to about 5 doors down on one side of the square, and also to the camera store on the other side. Outside was a man who waved when he saw him pointing. He was the owner of the bed and breakfast, so I walked to him. We went inside, I filled out a form, he copied my passport number, and then took me to my room. It was about 3 flights up narrow stairs, but was a great room.


It was like a studio, with a set of stairs up to a small kitchen and the bathroom. It was a full kitchen, with an oven, a fridge, and even some pots and pans. He pointed out the switch to activate the hot water for the shower (thankfully!), and he went back to his shop. I didn't waste much time, and went back to the second bar to buy a sandwich and something to drink. I had to duck to get into the kitchen, but it was a good room.


View from the kitchen with the sun setting.
Right outside my window, there was an old church, and the old men were already gathering on the benches. In every small town, you will find at night the older gentlemen of the town all meet, to visit with each other. It's always just the men, with their canes, and wearing their hats. It's one of my favorite scenes over there.






A few other shots out my window...


I quickly learned this bell.....


...would ring every 15 minutes!! I wanted to sleep with the window open, but the plaza was the main square, and those trees had about 3 gazillion very talkative birds in them. I relaxed for a bit, then walked toward the beach to take a look see around town. I picked a side road, heading downhill, and a few minutes later got to the beach. (I'll post those pics next time). I went into a bar, and got a drink, then sat and people watched. I made my way to the end of the beach, took some pictures, stopped and had a gelato, and watched some more people. Cefalu was sort of like a small version of Taormina. It's nice, but Taormina, maybe because it has more, plus most of the store owners speak a little English, one ups Cefalu. It was beautiful though. I walked around a bit more, grabbed another sandwich for dinner and went back to my room. It was a nice change from Ciro's. I didn't feel uncomfortable there, but I was in 'house guest' mode. I've lived alone for so long now, I like my quiet, nobody around time. Now if I just had my dogs here. It could also be I would get to sleep in a normal sized bed, even though the mattress was pretty firm, but all their beds were on the firm side. It's only 6:30 here and I'm considering taking a shower and going to bed. I am out of gas after the lack of sleep. I've come to realize something on this trip. Don't get me wrong, I'm having a great time, but I think it would have taken it up a notch if I had a friend to share it with.

I watched some TV, even though it was all in Italian, and tried to stay up a little longer. I didn't want to wake up too early, and wanted to attempt to sleep in as late as I could. It's 10 min until 10pm, now and I haven't heard the church bells for awhile. They must stop at a certain time at night thankfully. It's still pretty loud with people outside. Not car traffic, rarely did a car come through.

Anyway, heading to bed. Watch the videos below I found on youtube of Cefalu if you want.



ciao!!


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Now playing: Rob Zombie - Living Dead Girl
via FoxyTunes

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Day 7 (Oct 31) Happy Halloween

When I woke up today, I decided to relax, and not do any exploring. Since Dario was home, we talked for awhile. I got caught up on world issues on CNN International, and the latest election news, I also checked my emails on the computer. Ciro came by on a break from work (he only works 10 minutes from his apartment). We discussed the plan for the next few days. The train I needed to take from Palermo left at 8:25am. He said if I didn't want to take that one, I'd have to wait for him to get back from Ventimiglia. He found a place for me to stay in Cefalu and in Taormina, with reasonable rates, and vacancies for when I would be there. He talked about when I got back we could try and drive down to Tasca d' Almerita winery. We went there last trip, and I could say hi to my friend Sacha (pronounced Sasha, and yes, he is a dude). Sacha is the Sicilian George Clooney look-alike, all the ladies last time wanted to smuggle back with them. I have zero doubt this guy has any problem with the women.

While I was on the internet, I went ahead and signed up for a Facebook account. (You can see the new profile badge in the left column, yes that's a picture of me as a little kid). When Ciro got back from work around 2, Rosario came by, and we all went looking for some car part he needed on the scooters. I went just to get out of the apartment, and didn't want to miss a chance to hang out with Rosario.

Francesca was going to pick me up around 9:30 - 10 that night to go out. I talked to her on the phone and told her it had to be an early night, since my train left pretty early. Ciro said we would eat dinner early (lolz, at 9) so I'd be ready when she got there. Once we got back, we talked more about my train adventure. He said I needed to pay attention and make sure I got out at Messina, or I would end up on the Italian mainland. The ride to Cefalu should be about 40 min, we needed to leave his apartment by 7:45, I needed to pack my small suitcase, and we'd take the scooter to the station. Once I got to Cefalu, I would have to find my bed and breakfast. I'd have to find my way into town, and then using the address he wrote down, find where I'd be sleeping. He wrote down all the addresses, and train times for the trip there on a couple small pieces of paper. I would stay in Cefalu until Monday, and then take the train to Messina, change trains, then to Taormina.

I started packing my bag up, and I almost told Ciro to call Francesca back, I had a hunch my 'early' was nowhere near her idea of 'early' (I was right too). I decided to risk it, I mean it's hard to turn down a night with a beautiful woman. Alessandro and her picked me up around 10, and we went to a bar down the road. This place was packed. It was chaos inside to get a drink so I decided to not even mess with it. Alessandro asked if I wanted one, and I said no thanks, but he talked me into it. Once we all had a drink we went back outside. It was crowded out there too, we pretty much had the streets around the place full of people, and you'd have to move every few minutes to let a car by. We slid into a great spot though, between a parked car and the tent awning outside. I met a few more of her friends, a couple of them knew a little English even. Two of the girls could easily be models, they were gorgeous. This bar was just the meet up spot, and once the whole group got there, we all split up into cars and left. I was back in the car with Francesca, Alessandro, and a second Alessandro (who spoke English) and we sped off.

We drove to a different part of town, and parked down an alley. By now it was close to midnight, so I was already dreading waking up. This place had a live band, and most of it was open to the night sky. We found a spot we could all fit in, and everyone else started showing up, Alessandro #2's best friend is named Pietro. He was hilarious, spoke a tiny bit of English, but you could tell he was the life of the party wherever he goes. Every few minutes, he'd walk over to where I was with some girl I hadn't seen before, and clear his throat then say "Dominic, I present to you ____(insert girl's name)" Apparently since I was the new face, they all wanted to meet me. I would talk to them for a few minutes, or try to at least. One of them came back later and tried to get me to dance (I am not a dancer, trust me). I had no idea where the bar area was, but they each had me try whatever they had brought back. I was trying to stay sober, since the train ride was so early.

Alessandro #2 and I talked quite a bit, he could not believe, that is possible in America to sleep with a woman the first night you meet her. I tried to explain one night stands, but he couldn't believe it was true. In Sicily, the whole dating process is very slow. He said if you did sleep with a girl, her father might wake you up the next day with a gun, literally.

The band stopped around 2am, and we hung around til almost 3am. I was looking at 4 hours of sleep before I had to get up, so I tip-toed to bed when I got back to Ciro's. Luckily he had given me the extra key before we started the evening.
I went straight to bed since my bag was already packed.

ciao!


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Now playing: Angels & Airwaves - Sirens
via FoxyTunes

Monday, November 24, 2008

Day 6 (Oct 30) Thursday (continued)

Ok, now that I'm home, I'll wrap up day 6. Make sure you read the post below this one, to see where I left off.


We left off at the end of dinner. I admit, I skipped a bunch of stuff I had written, all babble about me and Francesca, but at as we left, Francesca also tells me she will see me tomorrow, well, technically later that day, since it was around 1 when we left. Halloween isn't that huge in Italy, it's becoming more popular, but the bigger holiday is All Saints Day, which is Nov 1st.

Once we got back to Ciro's, before I went to bed we talked about the weekend plan. He was going to Ventimiglia to his father's grave, and he suggested I take a trip on my own. I could get on the train in Palermo, and ride to a town called Cefalu, along the coast, about an hour from Palermo. That's where I could attempt to play a round of Golf. Once we found out the cost, I decided I'd pass this trip. If I was with someone else who wanted to play, then I probably would have, but it would have broke down like this...

Taxi to Golf Course: 35 euro (70 round trip)
Club Rental: 35 euro
18 holes: 55 euro
I wasn't sure if a cart was included, but that alone I was looking at around $200 US dollars. Like I said, if I was with another golfer, I would have splurged, but I decided to pass. I would rather use that $200 towards better clubs to be honest.

I would spend a day or two in Cefalu, then take the train to Taormina. I would need to change trains in Messina though. I could then stay in Taormina a couple days as well, and return to Palermo on Wednesday.

Before I stop writing tonight a couple things..
1. I really, really, really miss my dogs
2. I wish I fit in this blasted bed, had an extra pillow, and if it wasn't so loud outside open a window for a nice breeze.

I'm excited to see Francesca again tonight, but I'd rather we went somewhere just the two of us, and talked, or had some dinner. I'm sure though it will be another group outing, where I have to pronounce English words they don't know. I think Cefalu will be a nice break for me, I've always been more of a loner, and not that I feel uncomfortable at Ciro's, I'm on my guest behavior.

Lastly, I want to share the lyrics of my favorite song right now, I keep repeating on the iPod. It's called "Skinny Love" by Bon Iver, and here it is....
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Come on skinny love, just last the year
Pour a little salt we were never here
My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
Staring at the sink of blood and crushed veneer

I tell my love to wreck it all
Cut out all the ropes and let me fall
My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
Right in the moment this order's tall

I told you to be patient
I told you to be fine
I told you to be balanced
I told you to be kind
In the morning I'll be with you
But it will be a different "kind"
I'll be holding all the tickets
And you'll be owning all the fines

Come on skinny love what happened here
Suckle on the hope in lite brassiere
My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
Sullen load is full; so slow on the split

I told you to be patient
I told you to be fine
I told you to be balanced
I told you to be kind
Now all your love is wasted?
Then who the hell was I?
Now I'm breaking at the britches
And at the end of all your lines

Who will love you?
Who will fight?
Who will fall far behind?

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Listen to it in the video below (music only)



ciao!

Day 6 (Oct 30) Thursday

I woke up and said good morning to everyone. Dario (did I introduce him yet? That's Ciro's 15 yr old son) anyway, Dario was home from school, because there is a strike going on all across Italy/Sicily. The woman in charge of the education system there is proposing big budget cuts, involving the education system, and is closely tied to the prime minister who most everyone there can't stand, and are embarrassed about (sound familiar?). The night before, while I was outside the hotel smoking an organized march came walking by, with police escorts and bullhorns,banners, etc. So the teachers took today and tomorrow off. Dario couldn't be more happy because of it!

Dario told me Rosario would be picking me up in about 15 min, so I quickly took a shower and got dressed. I was excited to see what the day would turn out to be like with him. When he got there, I met him downstairs, and we went into the bar to get breakfast (espresso). We smoked a quick cigarette, and I got on the back of his scooter. I talked a little before about riding on a scooter in Palermo, but with Rosario it was taken up a notch. He drove considerably faster than Ciro did, thankfully the seat was much more comfy, and I didn't feel as scrunched up against Rosario. Sorry if I wrote about this, but the rules of the road there, are really every man, person, vehicle, scooter, bus, pedestrian for himself. They do stop for red lights, though I could never see where the light was at the intersection, and the first few seconds all the scooters jockey for position to get in front of everyone else. Then it seems like we are at a racetrack, everyone rolling forward. Imagine a dozen scooters acting like we are about to drag race. Then one of them jumps and we are all off, I don't know if the light changed or they got tired of waiting. Oh, and there are no traffic lanes, if 3 cars can fit side by side, then count on four trying, with scooters in between. The cars sit at these 'lights' and the scooters weave into oncoming traffic lanes, onto the sidewalk and back, and you drive slowly between cars so close I had to squeeze my legs in so I wouldn't rub against the cars. Most people fold their side mirrors in, probably for this reason. Also, when we are driving along, its nothing weird to be in the oncoming traffic lane a few feet, with cars coming at you. You just weave back into the other lane if needed. Sometimes it wasn't because they had enough room to not hit you. All this happens with police around, and nobody, well, most of them, not getting pissed at each other. I saw a few older men honk and do a fist wave, which was more funny than anything else.

Our destination was Monreale, right outside Palermo. We had to drive up a small mountain to get there, and get on a highway, which was interesting going about 80 kph (1 km = .62 m, so 80kmh=49.6 mph) That may not seem fast, 50 mph, but on a scooter, driving up a windy road with cars around, its fast enough. I was guessing on the way down, we could really fly. The helmet Rosario had for me, was like a half helmet, sort of like the ones a biker gang would wear, so the wind was whipping pretty good. I didn't bring a jacket that morning, I just had a long sleeve shirt on, but it wasn't really cold, it was the wind in my face that was annoying a little. I had taken off my sunglasses to put the helmet on. I learned later I could wear both, unlike the helmet Ciro had me use, that prevented me from wearing my glasses or shades.

Once we got to the top, we parked, and walked towards the Norman Cathedral. I had brought my small Italian to English dictionary, and Rosario was excited, because we were able to communicate a little better with it.



Here is an excerpt from Wikipedia about the cathedral....
"The Cathedral of Monreale is one of the greatest extant examples of Norman architecture in the world. It was begun in 1174 by William II, and in 1182 the church, dedicated to the Assumption of the Virgin Mary, was, by a bull of Pope Lucius III, elevated to the rank of a metropolitan cathedral.

The church is a national monument of Italy and one of the most important attractions of Sicily."

Go here to read more about the town of Monreale.

From the outside, the cathedral looks pretty plain. It's a much larger structure, with the buildings behind it though, now used as a preschool, is my guess, because there were a ton of little kids running around with adults who looked like they were watching over them.


The inside though, is amazing, and breathtaking, the walls are covered in Mosaics,



It was gorgeous... I even bought a tourist guide book while there to look at later. We made out way to the garden behind the cathedral, and I took four pictures then used photoshop to stitch them together. (Don't forget, if you click any of the pictures, you can enlarge it)




After going through the cathedral, we walked for a bit into town. Rosario, using the dictionary, asked what else I had or had not seen around town. We went back to the scooter, and drove back to Palermo.


We stopped at a few places, a park, a fountain, and then we were going to head to his place for lunch. He called his wife, and Francesca to let them know we were on our way. When we got there I met his wife, Paula, and Francesca showed up a few minutes later. She was in school (I guess the colleges weren't on strike) and she came home for lunch. Paula and her made us all something to eat, while we all talked. Since Francesca was the only other English speaker, she had to translate most of it. Paula couldn't understand why I was not able to eat as much as Rosario was putting away. I used 'saving room for dinner' as an excuse. That was kind of true, because that night we were all meeting back at Rosario's for a going away dinner for Gino. It was hilarious, because after we finished eating, they broke out some home made limoncello, but this wasn't lemon, it was some sort of orange, or melon, I couldn't figure it out. Rosario tried to have a glass, but Francesca and Paula slapped away his hand, like a little kid, and said he was driving the scooter, so he wasn't allowed any. They talked about other things we could see around town, and once Rosario had a couple we left.

The next stop was the Capuchin Catacombs. Cameras weren't allowed (so don't ask me how) but I found some pictures online. Rosario tried talking me into snapping a few pictures, but I didn't.



It was 2 euro to enter, and I bought a booklet for another 1.50. They have more than 8,000 mummies there. I knew about the catacombs before going, and read how it was not a place for kids. They were right. The air just felt heavy in there. I wasn't grossed out, or didn't feel sick, but after walking around it just felt strange, very morbid. They were displayed in glass caskets, or just held to the wall with a steel cable. Some still had hair, and if I had wanted (no idea why I would want to) I could have reached out and touched some of them. They have the bodies arranged differently, kids in one area, 'professional men', and women in another.





After walking around, I was ready to leave, and get some air. We stopped to get some gas in the scooter, and next was Mount Pelegrino, which is above Palermo. I thought 'on a scooter, climb that mountain?' It took about 30 minutes to go up the mountain, and the turns were hairpin turns, but we eventually made it to the sanctuary of Saint Rosali, the protector of Palermo. It was like a monastery, built into the cliff wall. Unfortunately it was not open, due to falling rock inside. We drove on, to the top of the mountain though.

Nice view huh! I took a few more shots



Remember Mondello? The resort town I took the bus too? Here is a shot of it from the top of a mountain, above Palermo. The drive down we went a different route. I wish I had a coat, because it was pretty cold up there. It wasn't bad, until we were on the scooter. When we got down the mountain, the road we were on, went through a large park. It was a beautiful ride, I even saw the 'Chinese palace'. I'm not sure what it's for, but I'd seen it on a tourism website for something. Rosario took me back to Ciro's, after a very exciting day. Before dinner time, Ciro and I went to his favorite pastry shop, so we could get a tray of deserts for dinner. We went back, and got ready for dinner. Since everyone was going, we took the car back to Rosario's and got there around 9:30pm. It was Rosario, Paula, Francesca, Gino, Linda, Ciro, Gloria, Dario, and me. There was one other couple, running late. They lived on one of the islands, and the ferry was behind schedule.


Francesca was dressed up for dinner, and I know I keep saying this, she is hands down gorgeous, beautiful, H.A.W.T. and the most attractive female I have seen over there. Once the last couple showed up, and we sat down for dinner. I sat at one end of the table, and she sat at the opposite end. She was up and down bringing the food from the kitchen. My mind wandered, as they were all talking to each other in Italian, and to an outsider, it would look like they were arguing, but it's more like passion when they talk, it's fun to watch actually. I can pick out some words when it's not too loud, they speak slow, and it's one to one, but when in a group, I just tune it out. Anyway, Francesca and my imagination. I'm gonna go off on a depressing monologue here, so skip ahead if you don't want to read it. I'll use a quote from a movie I saw once. Every guy dreams of landing a Marlin, a trophy fish, or playing baseball in the majors, but most of us, including me, don't have the talent to accomplish this. Francesca is way out of my league. Yes, I barely know her, but it'd be one of those couples where you see a beautiful woman, and some dude with her, and your mind says 'how did that happen?' I'm not fishing for sympathy, or a bunch of comments talking about how I am good enough. I know the truth, guys like me, don't end up with guys like her.


As we ate, I realized I didn't care much for the late arriving couple, the lady seemed to act a little snotty, like she was better than everyone else. I can't stress how cool Rosario is too, and Paula is stunningly pretty for an older lady.

First up, the Antipasta dish. Salami, cheeses, small red stuffed peppers. Then the Pasta, a spicy penne pasta Puglia style. Puglia is a region in Italy, where Paula is from. There food is know for being spicy. Ciro passed me a jar of a red pasty substance, and told me to put some on top. So I scooped a spoonful on and passed it to Gino. He leaned over and said I would pay the price for that, meaning it's gonna be hot. I thought, thanks for the heads up before I went and poured it on. A few minutes into eating, I noticed beads of sweat forming on my forehead, and an intense need for water. Rosario, Francesca, and Paula were all laughing and said to avoid the water, use the wine to get rid of the burn! Next up was the salad, I know, the order sounds wrong to us. Then the meat dish, it was a sort of stew, they called goo-lash, but I think it was the Sicilian version. After a short break, and a cigarette, we went back for desert. Mixed fruit in a sugar sauce. A 'chocolate salami' sort of like a crackle candy bar made in a roll shape. The pastries we brought. A pistachio cake, and finally, liquor. Rosario put about 5 different kinds on the table, and we all had a drink.

They commenced with the questions, about America. Can you really get married in a drive-thru in Vegas? Where exactly is Kansas? Occasionally, one of the English speaking natives would fill me in on what they were all talking about. Whenever I caught Rosario looking at me, he'd throw me a wink a smile, and one of his laughs. Whenever Francesca would catch me looking at her, she'd throw a smile back. Paula was just happy to see me actually eat something, she didn't notice I took about half size portions so I could make it to the end.

I went outside to smoke, and Francesca came out a few minutes later to talk. We only had a few seconds alone though. That couple I didn't know interrupted. Around 12:30 Gino and Linda were leaving. So lots of teary goodbyes, since they didn't know when they would see him again. Rosario even had to excuse himself for a bit after they did leave. They all talked awhile more, and then Ciro and Gloria gave in to Dario whining about leaving. We all said goodbye, I thanked them for dinner, Francesca said she was sorry we didn't get to talk more, and we left. I completely understood, seeing how busy she was for the whole dinner.

To be continued.....
Sorry, it's time for me to go home, this was such an eventful day, I have a few more things to add, so I will try when I get home to finish this up, but for now, I'll go ahead and post what I have typed up. I was busy on conference calls most of the afternoon and I tried multitasking but ran out of time.

ciao!

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Now playing: Alice in Chains - Man In The Box

Friday, November 21, 2008

Day 5 (Oct 29) Wednesday

When I woke up today, Ciro was still home, told me he had taken a sick day, and would be staying home. That didn't mean we would be hanging out though. For his job, when you take a sick day, they send a doctor to your house. They don't tell you when the appointment will be, so you are stuck waiting around your place or get caught fibbing. Since the weather was going to be good, he suggested I visit Mondello. Mondello is a small beach side town about 20 minutes outside Palermo. I have been there before, and said that would be fine. I packed my camera, a book, and we checked out the bus schedule. I would need to take two different buses to get there. We got on the scooter so Ciro could take me to get bus tickets and drop me off at a bus stop. To give you an idea of riding on a two wheel vehicle, watch this video of an older American, riding on the back of a motorcycle.

(I didn't shoot either of these)
Palermo driving on a motorcycle



We drove down to St Domenico church, and let me tell you, the scooter rides (this wasn't the last) were a blast. Zooming, and zipping in and out of traffic, it is like a ride at an amusement park. When we got there, Ciro explained the way the tickets worked. When you get on the bus, you have to insert it into a machine, that time stamps it. That ticket is now good for 90 minutes, so you can get off the bus and back on anywhere, on the same ticket, but once that time is up, you have to stamp another one. They do random checks of people while the bus is driving, so he said to make sure I always stamped the ticket. I bought about 5 tickets, since I guessed this wouldn't be my last day riding the bus. St Domenico's is right next door to the famous Vucciria market.

<---Saint Dominic's cathedral


















It's an alleyway of people selling everything from fish and olives, to toys and vegetables. I took a bunch of pics last trip....
The next couple pics are from the trip last year, I didn't take any of the market this time there.







Ciro checking out the selection. (last year)








Fresh fish anyone? (last year)

















So I walked a bit down the street to the bus stand, and I quickly learned to stop the bus you want, you stand in the street and hold your arm out. I filed in, punched my ticket, and chose to stand in the back. It wasn't crowded, but I figured that would prevent me from having to get up at another stop to give my seat up to a woman. My instructions were to take this first bus to the end of its line, get out, and find my bus to Mondello. As we drove and kept stopping to pick people up, the bus starting getting crowded. By crowded I mean after 10 minutes it was shoulder to shoulder even standing. I shook my head as the driver kept stopping, and people shoved their way on board. I saw a few people start working their way towards the door before a stop, and they weren't able to actually get out before we drove on. When the bus stopped heading west, I guessed we were done, and got out. I searched around for my next ride, but couldn't see a bus stop anywhere. I went around the street, and saw where all the buses park for the drivers to take a break. About 10 buses all line up with the drivers outside smoking. This wasn't a bus stop though. I found one the driver was still sitting in, and leaned inside. I asked in Italian if he spoke English, he didn't. I asked where seis un quattro (614) and he signalled me to sit down. He drove the bus right around the corner, and pointed to the stand I needed to be at. I thanked him, and jumped off. I found my bus among the others and climbed aboard. This bus never got crowded, and about 20 minutes later, I recognized the beaches of Mondello, so I got out.





Why is it when you travel, you refer to the wind as the 'breeze', but at home its just wind?












I'm sitting with my back to the Sea, and I think I could easily sit here for the rest of the day. That 'breeze' cools you off from the warm Sicilian sun, and the even more foreign to me foreigners arguing in Indian or Hindu (dunno) isn't even disturbing me. I'd trade my passport for a hammock in the shade right now. I walked around town, got some gelato, drank a beer, watched people, and took a few pictures. It was time to head back to Palermo, so I got my bearings and headed back to the bus stop. It took awhile for the right one to show up, for a few minutes I thought I was in the wrong place, but about 30 minutes of waiting and the right one came by. I was a little proud of myself while riding back, for so far not getting lost or having to call Ciro.




We got to Palermo, and I exited the same place I got on. Right next to the soccer stadium. Since I had been here, I knew where to go for the second bus. When I found that one, I started trying to remember where Ciro told me I needed to get out. I was listening to my iPod, and enjoying the views. The second bus' route was from the soccer stadium on one side of Palermo to the train station on the opposite end of the city. I never saw any of the landmarks Ciro said to watch for but all of a sudden I recognized his street he lived on. So I went ahead and got out at the next stop. When I got to his apartment, it was just me and Gloria (his wife) and we tried to talk about my day so far. Her English isn't great at all. She told me Francesca was going to pick me up at 7:45 to go out that night. I turned on CNN International (in English) and relaxed. Ciro has talked about me taking an adventure on my own the next week to Taormina by train if we could find reasonably priced places for me to stay on short notice. I thought it would be a good idea, because there aren't many places to buy souvenirs in Palermo. I had to at least get something for the lady watching my dogs, and my backup at work. When Ciro got home, he said I needed to dress up a little, because Francesca said it was a 'cocktail' party we were going to at a hotel bar. So I took a quick shower and changed into the one pair of nice slacks. When it was time to go, I cringed as he handed me my helmet. I'm not being girly, but I have to use hair gel when I style my hair, because I have calics, I think I spelled that right, but you know when your hair wants to lay a certain way in certain spots? If I don't put some gel on those, I'd look like Alfalfa, from the little rascals. Riding on the scooter, you are required to wear a helmet, so every time I styled my hair, that dang helmet messed it up. Ciro dropped me off early, so I walked around for a bit, until it was time and Francesca found me. She looked amazing, as she always did, and she started introducing me to more of her friends. None of these ones spoke any English though. Her friend Allesandro was a really cool guy, and we did our best to communicate, but I liked him. Francesca told me her father was planning on taking me to Monreale the next day, and I quietly got excited to have another adventure with him. After we had some drinks, we left and they took me to a pastry shop so they could get me to try some traditional deserts. Then they took me home. I'm sitting in my bed, and man do I miss my dogs. It seems at night is when I really miss them the most. Well, that's it for today, I'm excited for tomorrow, and Rosario, so I'm heading to bed.

ciao!

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Day 4 (Oct 28)

So far, the best day yet!
Rosario and I woke up around 8, got ready, and jumped in his, oh wait, I didn't mention it. Rosario has an old Fiat, from the 70's, it was his grandfather's car. They leave it in Ventimiglia and use it when they are harvesting their olives.
Coolest car evAr!! It was a four speed, and I should have taken a picture of the console, but it shook your whole body while the engine was running. It was a four speed, with the engine in the 'trunk'. The car came up to about my shoulders, and you had to slam the doors to close them.

This was a view down the street from Ciro's childhood home. Rosario and I went looking for cafe (espresso) and a croissant for breakfast, and once we found the place he wanted, we had our coffee, and we were off. In Italy coffee (cafe) is espresso, if you want our version, you have to say 'American Cafe' which means they pretty much take an espresso, and water it down. The espresso is served in small cups, and you stir it for a few seconds, then pretty much drink it like a shot of Tequila. I love it, and wish I had a real espresso machine at home. Rosario explained we were going to see the man made lake. It was only about 25 years old, and the whole town was very proud of it. As we left town we pulled onto a road I imagine here would be 4x4's only. We were in a car that the tires were about the size of a large platter. It was pretty much large gravel, very windy, lots of potholes, bumps, etc. As we steered in and around the bumps, Rosario was grinning ear to ear, laughing over every bump. There wasn't a soul in sight for miles, so we were all over the road, sometimes even driving into the grass to get around the holes. I felt the car scrape bottom more than once. I couldn't help smiling along with Rosario.

Here is a decent shot of what most of the road was like. -->








We stopped for a second at the edge of town, while we were on the last part of pavement. So we drive for maybe 30 or 40 minutes. When we got to downhills, he would sometimes kill the engine, and just steer down the hill, then start the engine towards the bottom. As we topped a hill, and were on a flat stretch, Rosario realizes he can no longer shift into any gear. He stops the car, and explains to me, we might be in trouble. We both got out, and he crawls under the car. When he comes out, he tries to tell me what he saw. I'm no mechanic, but from his hand movements, I am guessing the drive shaft had split apart. I'm think, man are we screwed. We haven't seen anyone for some 40 minutes. Rosario gets out the tire jack, a pair of pliers, and a short piece of wire. We jack up one side, and he crawls back under. A few minutes later, he comes out, and we move to the other side. I jacked up the car, and he went back in. When he comes out this time, he is smiling. Climbing into the car, he tries the shifter, and laughs as he can now put it in gear. I once again hear a voice inside my head that says, did he just seriously fix the drive shaft with a piece of wire? He signals me to get back in, starts the car up, and that voice says, guess we aren't seeing the lake, but that voice was wrong, we putter off towards the lake again.


That was Rosario after fixing the car, you can see it barely comes up to his shoulder, and I was maybe half a foot taller than him. Talk about a Sicilian MacGuyver. As we kept driving I got to see the lake, and he explained it was very low, they hadn't gotten much rain for awhile.


You can see the dam, which was our destination.


Castle Caccamo, in the distance.








You can see the normal water level on the column at the dam.
We spent a few minutes there, and headed back towards town. I'm just waiting every time he shifts to hear the engine fall out the back. A few minutes down the road, a car appears behind us. Rosario stops and signals them alongside. They pull up, and he asks about a side road I think he wants to use as a shortcut. They stare blankly at him, and to my shock, say they are Americans! They then asked us for directions. How the heck they got where we were I have no idea. We sent them off in the right direction, and Rosario tested his very good luck on the side road. It was mostly uphill, and I could have gotten out and walking faster, while doing a handstand, we were both laughing now. A few miles down that road, we stopped at a house, but nobody was home, so we kept going. A little later, he spots a family working in their olive grove, so we asked them directions. Our luck held out, and the road was going where we needed to be. Once we got to pavement, Rosario recognized where we were, and we "sped" off back to town. I use sped very loosely, since I think the Fiat's top speed was about 45mph, hehe. When we got to town, we went straight to the mechanic, who used the lift, and took a look underneath. He fixed it with I'm guessing a clamp, didn't charge us anything and our lake adventure was over. We drove over to Gino's for lunch. He wasn't there yet, so I met his parents, and when Leena showed up, she started cooking. Gino and Linda came a few minutes later, right before a storm rolled in, and it started pouring like crazy. We had a good lunch, Linda and Gino left, and we sat around and chatted. Well they mostly did while I listened. They turned on the TV, and I started dozing off. Ciro was on his way to pick us up, but was delayed because of the rain back in Palermo. Once he did get there, we said our byes, and made a few stops in town for some local stuff you can't find in Palermo, locally made/grown. We got back to Ciro's and it was dark, so we talked a bit about me going to Mondello the next day by bus. We had dinner (9:30pm) and I went to bed.


ciao!

I almost forgot.....the album/slide show is now online. You can go look now, but as I write this, I'll pepper in some of the stuff I'm writing about, so your choice, to look now or wait.

Please don't use the images without permission, at some point, I'll be changing this back to private view only.

SLIDE-SHOW

If you don't want to view it in slideshow format, you can use this next link to see the pictures as well.

ALBUM


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Now playing: Beastie Boys - The Sound Of Science

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

sorry

look for day 4 and the continuing story post probably tomorrow. I took a day off from work Tuesday, and been playing catch up today. I am really close to getting all the pics online, which will give me a slide show link to pass out. Then everyone will stop asking me for when they will get to see pictures.

Friday, November 14, 2008

Day 3 (Oct 27)

**just a reminder, click any image to get a enlarged view**

Before I went to bed the night before, Ciro explained he would get home from work around 2, and then we were heading to Ventimiglia.

Here are some shots of the elevator in his building. It was pretty cool, but really tiny inside. The sign in the box says max capacity 3 people, but it was crowded with 2.

You pressed the call button to bring the car to your floor.








Once it arrives, you open the metal door, then the wooden doors.


Then you open the double wooden doors and close everything before pressing and holding the button for the floor you want.






Ventimiglia is a small town maybe 20-30 minutes from Palermo. We were going there to see my friend Gino. I met Gino on the last trip, he is a good friend of Ciro, and when Ciro had to go back to Palermo on the last trip sick. Gino met us in Alia, and played tour guide for the last couple days. He introduced me to limoncello the first night I met him. When we got to Taormina, everyone went their separate ways, but I walked around with Gino and he showed me a few off the beaten path spots in town, like a private tour. He lives in Ventimiglia and is an electrician by trade. Ciro owns his childhood home in town, and he and Francesca's father (Rosario) keep a few olive trees there to make their own olive oil. I recently found out Gino is moving to Chicago to live with his old girlfriend. She moved there years ago, from Sicily. The plan is once I am back, my parents and I will meet them halfway in St Louis to have dinner, which should be fun.

Anyway, before we leave Palermo, we have to wait for Ciro's wife to get home with the car. We will then drive over and pick up Rosario. I watched some CNN International (in English) and got adjusted to being there.


I took a walk later in the morning and took this picture under a bridge. The moss was hanging down over the path and I thought it looked pretty cool.

One of my concerns prior to the trip was how picky of an eater I am. I didn't want to be rude if I was a guest at someone else's table, and was served something I despised. I am allergic to mushrooms, but otherwise it's just not liking certain things. I decided to just smile and eat whatever was in front of me. For dinner the night before I had risotto with spinach. Today I had fresh fish on the bone, and zucchini and eggplant!

I will be staying in Ventimiglia for a night so I packed a small bag. When Ciro got home and we were on our way to pick up Rosario, he dropped a bomb. First off, Francesca's father is a state bodyguard for a living. Technically, he is a policeman, but his assignment is as a bodyguard. Over in Sicily, judges need bodyguards. We drove to the over side of Palermo, and a few minutes later I met Rosario. Ciro and Rosario grew up together in Ventimiglia, and are only 6 months apart in age. The second bomb then dropped. Rosario will be staying with me at Ciro's place while I am there. Rosario didn't really speak English, and I wasn't sure what he thought of me, since I have been talking to his daughter for the last year online.

When we arrived in town, it was like a reunion. Every person we passed got a honk and a ciao! It's not a large town, so everyone knows everybody. We drove through town to the outskirts where Gino was working. He was finishing up a job before he moved to Chicago at an Olive Mill. We said our hello's and I got a brief tour. It was a brand new facility, not completely finished. he had to get back to work, so we agreed to meet for dinner at his place, and went our way. We went to Ciro's house and dropped off our things. When we got to the bedroom, I was told the sleeping arrangements. It was a 4 story building, and I was going to sleep in the bed, and Rosario on a cot in a closet! I tried to argue, but they both said there was no way I would fit on the cot, so I gave in. A few minutes later we left again, to get groceries for the dinner. We went to probably every grocer, butcher, fruit market in town. We found everything they needed except Ricotta cheese. On the way to Gino's we stopped at a friend of theirs market, it was called 'The American Market". The owner lived in Brooklyn for 15 years. As we were talking, they took a chance and asked if he had any Ricotta. What do you know, the only grocery store in town that had it, was the American Market! It was literally the last Ricotta cheese left in town.

We drove to a garage, and got Rosario's grandfathers Fiat (I'll show a picture next post) and took both cars to Gino's. Since after dinner Ciro would be driving back to Palermo. We got there a few minutes after Gino, because he was still cleaning up from work, and I met his girlfriend Linda. Come to find out, she is actually his fiance! I'm not sure what age she moved to Chicago, but you'd have no idea when she spoke English she was born in another country. We chatted for awhile until Gino's sister showed up, and started dinner. After we ate, they got me to try fresh persimmons, and something called prickly pear.

I didn't take that picture, but wanted to share what they look like. These grow all over the place, on cactus. Gino also broke out some homemade sangria. He takes peaches and soaks them in wine, and some other type of liquor. The sangria was quite powerful, I think you could have used it to run a small car, woweee. Dinner wrapped up, and a few more people knocked on the door. Gino's place is like the party house, because all of a sudden, 4 more people showed up. We sat around talking, and listening to music. Mostly classic rock bands, like Pink Floyd, Dire Straits, The Doors. When we went outside to smoke, Rosario, Gino's sister (Leena), and another girl there would hum songs, and see if I could tell them the name. I felt like I was on a game show. It was a great time, as I spent more and more time with Rosario, he became one of the highlights of the whole trip. He was hilarious. I have no idea what time the party ended, Ciro had left hours ago, but it finally ended. Rosario and I drove back to the house to call it a night.


ciao!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Day 2 (Oct 26)

Ok, I do have a couple pics during the flight, nothing spectacular, I mean, c'mon, I'm taking the shot through an airplane window.
That was the sunrise somewhere over England. Now back to the journal.

Finally we land in Rome around 1am cet (central Europe time). We landed about 40 min early, so tack that onto my layover. Once I finally got on my final plane, I witnessed an Italian version of Keystone cops. The stewardess spent 15 min trying to put newspapers into a closet, and they kept sliding out, or the door wouldn't shut. We were supposed to take off at 9:20, but we didn't until almost 10:15. I made my way to baggage claim once we were in Palermo, when the next hiccup happened. The drug sniffing dog decided he liked me, or smelled my dogs, I don't know. It's not he went nuts when he smelled me, he just took an extra second to sniff. Oh wait, maybe after flying for so long I smelled, lol. So the customs officer handling the dog, asks me to accompany him through security into the office. They immediately start asking (their English was not good) if I had any hashish, or marijuana. They pat me down, and went through my carry-on bag. I had to play charades to explain a few things, like the smokeless tobacco, etc. Once they were done, all three of us went back out (yes everyone was staring) and waited for my checked bags. We repeated the process, with them going through everything. They asked the hashish question at least a dozen times through the whole check. When they were done, I had to repack my bags pretty much, and they let me go. I heard them tell their supervisor I was a 'good American boy' as we walked out. They were not rude during any of it, or harsh, so I wasn't upset. I was calm the whole time, because I had nothing to hide.

Ciro was waiting at the exit, poor guy, I was pretty late after the customs check and the plane being delayed. We said out hello's, I apologized. We headed to his car, and we were on our way into Palermo. His apartment is in the center of the city. The original plan was to go see the Palermo soccer club play an important series A match that night vs the club in Florence. Francesca was going to take me, but it was supposed to rain. I found out later Francesca has naturally curly hair, and right now she is wearing it straight, so if it got wet POOF, so we weren't sure about the game. Ciro has said before, he thinks he is the only Sicilian who doesn't smoke, like soccer, or drink espresso, hehe.

Ciro called Francesca to find out her plans, and she told him she'd pick me up at his place around 6. When she arrived, we were formally introduced, and I'll just say this...she might be the hawtest (unattached) female I have ever been in the company of. She could be a model, I promise you this. We walked for a bit, talking, her English was pretty good so we did fine. We doubled back to her car and she said we were meeting some of her friends later. We drove to the older section of Palermo and found a place to park. We did some more walking and talking to kill some time. We were on a main road walking and she explained certain roads are shut down on the weekend so people could take strolls. There were dozens, maybe even a hundred or so people just walking. Families, people window shopping, women pushing strollers, it was really cool. We ran into her English teacher at the college, who was actually from Boston (future job for me?). Awhile later we arrived at a pub, down an alley that was packed.

I wish I could remember all their names, but I was introduced to so many people it is impossible. Two names I do recall are Valeria and a second Francesca. They were both lawyers. Valeria's brother actually lives in the US, and works for a school. Her English was decent so we talked a bit, and she said he lived in North Carolina and worked for a college. I had to ask, and talk about coincidence, he works for the University of North Carolina, at Chapel Hill. Yes, my beloved Tarheels. This place was packed, and we moved outside after a drink, and by this time, it was me and about 6 beautiful Sicilian women. Francesca still stood out though, even among the others. They had tables set up in the alleyway and it was packed. I was told by her friends I absolutely had to get a facebook account, so anyone reading this, who uses fbook, leave a comment and we can add each other (since i did in fact open an account).

After awhile, the girls decided it was time to move on, and they wanted gelato. We all went to the car, and started driving. They went to three different gelateria's until they found the one they wanted. We all sat and had desert, then they took me home.

ciao!

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Day 1(Oct 25)

If you are just tuning in, over the next few days(weeks) I will be transferring the notes I wrote in a journal, while on my trip to Sicily to the blog. One post a day, and pictures as I talk about certain things. Today will be day 1, when I left KC, on my long trip over. Enjoy, feel free to comment, and I'll try answering questions as we go.
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It's not a good thing when you look around at the other people on your flight and see the cast of the TV show LOST. Hurley's brother was sitting two rows in front of me, and I did look for Kate, crossing my fingers, but no luck.


Luckily, no water crossings between KC and Chicago, maybe a lake or two, but no chance of ending up on an island between Australia and Japan (but if Kate had been on the flight, it would have ok with me). Here are some pics of the first day....



hehehe, not much else for the first day, since it was an overnite flight..

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Ciao from Palermo

So, for the people who read this, I wanted to let you know the plan....

I'm writing this from Palermo, at Ciro's desk in his apartment.

I have been writing everyday in a notebook about what I did, saw, and the other things the voices in my head told me to write. When I get back, have adjusted, and when I'm ready, I will start posting again here. Starting with Day 1, and you will get a new post once a day, that follows my trip, day by day. So, for 14 some odd days, you will see Day 1, then 2, 3, and so on. I will post pictures as I write from that day, or images that explain what I'm trying to explain.

So stay tuned for a rundown of the trip, but don't expect me to start writing immediately. I want to sleep about 2 days in my own bed with my dogs, before I re-enter my old life.

oh, and I was talked into opening a facebook account, so if any of you are on there, let me know and we can add each other.

Friday, October 24, 2008

Ciao a Presto!

Well, here it is, Friday night. My flight leaves at 1:27pm tomorrow. I take a quick jump to Chicago, and then around 4:30pm, I'm on my way to Rome. I land in Rome at 7:20am CET time, (that's central european time) take 6 hrs away and you'll realize that was a 9.5 hr flight. Then at 9:20am (CET) I make my last ride to Palermo.

Total time since KC equals.
KC--> Chicago: 1hr 28m
Layover: 1hr 30m

Chicago-->Rome: 9hr 30min
Layover: 1hr 25m

Rome-->Palermo: 1hr 10m

Total: 12 hr flying (rounded)
Total: 3hrs layover

The return trip? It' about 14 hrs flying. I have my smokeless tobacco ready, but I will be jonesing for a smoke when I land, believe that.

I'm finishing up packing, charging all my electronics, and cleaning around the house, so now it's just a nite of not being able to sleep and a few more hours. Not being able to sleep might be a good thing though. I will have to force myself through the adrenaline on the flight and get some then. I found out so far, Sunday night, me and Francesca will be hitting the Palermo v Fiorentina soccer match. Then Monday I'll be off to Ventimiglia for a couple days. After that, no idea.

I plan on trying to scribble down some words as the days pass, and give a full update when I return on November the 8th. Unless my buddy Alex gets the secret word indicating I am never coming back!

Ok, I need to zip up the suitcases, spend some more time harassing my dogs, and then go toss and turn in bed.

Ciao!
Domenico

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Listening to: The Weepies - Hideaway

Monday, October 13, 2008

Sorry


Sorry, I haven't updated. I have been so distracted lately, and busy, that I simply haven't had the time. And when I have, I'd rather vegetate than write.

My big announcement? The one I spaced off telling everyone, is I booked my trip to Sicily. It was sort of a last second decision. I got tired of trying to find a time-frame that worked for everyone, so I decided when for myself. Yes, you read that right, I have booked my tickets.

When am I going you ask? How about in 12 days. I leave KC on Oct 25th, and will be gone for two weeks, returning Nov the 8th. My plan is to try and write a short summary each night in a journal, then transpose it all here when I return.

What is my plan/itinerary when I get there? Don't have one! I told Ciro when I needed to be picked up from the airport, and when he needs to drop me off two weeks later.

Ok, technically, I have sent a few 'wants' to Ciro, and Francesca. I want to see Monreale, return to Castlemare del Golfo, try to do some golfing, sailing, and see a soccer game. So far I know we are travelling south to meet up with Sacha from the winery, Francesca was looking into soccer tickets, sailing depends on weather, and golf shouldn't be a problem.

Needless to say, ever since I booked the tickets, I have been sort of out of it, for lack of a better term. I feel like I didn't give myself enough time to prepare. I still have a ton to do before the day arrives. My agreed upon backup here at work, disappeared and nobody is saying where to. Well, the only one who truly knows is our manager, and she has kept the secret. So I had to try and give a crash course to someone else here, and will just cross my fingers it works out while I am gone.

I plan on bringing my camera of course, and will share pictures, and what all went down when I return, but don't be surprised if the posts are scarce leading up to the departure day.

So, I better get back to freaking out about not being ready. I just wanted to leave some sort of note for those of you wondering where I went.

Golf


Castelmare del Golfo

ciao!


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